“when are you going to start driving?” an adult asks me, a neurodivergent kid with a death wish and extreme panic issues,
Month: November 2015
let’s go on a date and by date I mean lay in bed and make out for 3 hours
This is the perfect date
my “what I did instead of killin myself” photoset for the night
me: don’t catch feelings
me: *catches feelings*
me to me:
List of Non-sexual forms of intimacy
- watching
tv/movies together- going to events together like carnivals, festivals etc.
- going on dates like to the movies or shopping
- sharing secrets
- hugs
- sharing drinks
- phone calls
- talking
- touching noses
- cuddling
- philosophical discussions
- hand holding
- sharing jokes
- sharing smiles
- laying your head on someone’s shoulder
- linking arms
- massages
- tickling
- playing with hair
- scratching backs
- tracing designs on arms
- talking about the future
- a hand written note
- moving your head to their chest and listening to their heartbeat.
- singing together or playing instruments together
- dancing
- feeding each other
- drawing/writing on one another
- brushing your partners hair
- sharing food
- sitting knee to knee across from each other
- doing beauty treatments like facials or manicures, hair
dying or face masks- reading books together
- take care of your partner when sick
- talking about the relationship (how I feel with you, How I feel w/
this relationship)- cooking together
- head-scratches
- hugging
- discussions about yourselves (like flaws, shortcomings, passions,
stuff)- being physically/emotionally vulnerable
- just sleeping together,
- an actual open honest conversation
- bathing and taking care of hygiene together
- butterfly kisses
- nuzzling
- telling on-the-fly stories
- meditating or sharing spirituality
- grooming
- sharing hobbies
- studding
- sharing personal stories
- shaving
- seeing each other without make-up or all dressed up
- moral support for major events
- crying, sharing emotions, comforting each other
- listening to someones heartbeat or breathing
- camping/hiking
- sleepovers
- being with animals together
- going on trips together
- sharing clothes/jewelry/personal items
- sharing online social media
- cleaning someone else’s living space
- going with them to a doctor/therapist
- doing art together
- kissing different body parts
- making out
- volunteer together
- work together
- talking about wants and desires
- experience new things together
- do an extracurricular together
- play games together
- play sports together
- walking together
- being respectful and kind to one another (helping them do things,
open doors for them etc.)- sharing responsibilities (chores, babysitting etc.)
- giving each other presents, special things from the heart
- talking about and respecting each others boundaries
- public displays of affection
- grooming in front of each other
- wrestling or play fighting
- texting/talking online
- looking in each other’s eyes
- complimenting each other
- falling asleep over skype or chat
- making faces at each other
- sky watching
- write poetry
- inside jokes
- respect
each other- tell
them how you feel about them- get
to know each other better (playing 20 questions)- go
for a ride together- close
your eyes and memorise each others faces with your fingers- walk
arm in arm- make
a playlist together- make
up your own words or slang- go
out to eat- list
each other’s best features- bring
your faces close without touching and feel each other breath- go
shopping together- throw
a party or other event together- leave
love notes- exercise
together- exchange
something meaningful- try
to have a whole conversation with only eye contact and facial
expressions- sit
back to back and feel each other’s heartbeat- learn
their favorite food and make it- run
errands together- look
at photos together- take
photos together- go
people watch- have
a staring contest- learn
something new together- take
turns leading each other on a nature walk blindfolded- get
to know each others family and friends- draw
or sculpt each other- paint
each other’s bodies- play
with kids together- practicing
a skill together- sharing
food- being
in comfortable clothes together- waving
goodbye- being
comfortable with each other’s bodily functions- any others you can think of?
@aliens you can come beam me up now (she/her or they/them)
How to spoon:
- Dick hard on the butt
- Titty in my hand
- Kiss ya neck
- Hell yeah
WhatHOW TO SPOON
- DICK HARD ON THE BUTT
- TITTY IN MY HAND
- KISS YA NECK
- H E L L Y E A H